funny, just got back from the grocery store and in the aisle , I passed a mom with 3 kiddos,looking very frustrated as she tried to calm one of her toddlers down ( he was having a meltdown). Thanks for giving us this space to vent!! We also keep kid things on hand to keep them occupied. Once she was old enough items were given back because she didn’t say thank you – we left parties because she was disrespectful. We save those restaurants for date nights! Kid Free Zones? I know, because mine is grown now and I miss my little boy. Once we were asked to leave a play because I had my sleeping newborn w/me. or 2) Could this be more of a reflection on parenting or more importantly, lack of parenting? Was it necessary – for us it was! Because if our WF offered that option (or Central Market, or Costco, or wherever) I would be all over the opportunity to shop while maintaining a harmonious inner dialogue about which box of cereal represents the best deal. They recently refused my 3 year old entrance because she was oh, about one milimetre too short. . You want to hear some screaming? You become a hypocrite. There’s no reason that responsible and respectful parents with mindful well-behaved children should not be allowed to dine together in any restaurant of their choosing, fly first class or see a movie. “I paid to get into this movie, and I’m going to watch it even though my child is screaming her head off and disrupting the experience for everyone else.” It’s a me-me-me world, unfortunately, and everyone’s looking out for him or herself. I’ve seen some parents acting worse than the children they are with at the store! Autistic? I’ve seen plenty of adults in “nicer” restaurants that I’ve wished could be sent to the “loud-and-obnoxious-free-zone”. But banning children crying or not seems a bit harsh. We shouldn’t expect that other adults should just be patient with our out of control child. I am more tolerant of airplanes because parents have no where to go if there baby is crying. They are probably just as fed up as you! What i wonder though is are we missing the picture on why kids have to be restricted? I also think it’s a little bit…I don’t want to say selfish, but that’s the best word I can come up with…it’s a little bit selfish to think that you can go into public and not have other people around you. This sad state of affairs is a result of the fact that many parents don’t/won’t teach their children basic manners. If not, please consider providing your child with an alternate activity.” and maybe a little picture of two angelic looking children on a bench or something. Oh no! I ask is it really the baby’s fault that he is being asked to quietly sleep through a movie being played at decibels which could break the sweet dear’s eardrums? and how must it make them feel? I think the expectations that people put on children and parents are completely unreasonable. Children were allowed to play around the table and express themselves and it made for a nice friendly atmosphere everywhere you went: there wasn’t an artificial distinction between child-friendly restaurants (over-priced, themed, boring/junk food) and adult only restaurants (stiff and formal). People have no shame anymore – and no common sense. I have no problem with kids (well-behaved or otherwise) in family restaurants, grocery stores, airplanes, buses, etc, etc, etc. I don’t mind going to a “family” diner with the kids, or a kid movie, or any place where kids just seem to fit into the setting. Because parents are not addressing their children’s bad behavior. agree 100% agree.. no kids but got me a godchild!!! I am a parent and find it embarrassing to be with or around children with no manners or guidance. Is it because of the parenting? I would shop there more if the attendants had a little heart. My husband and I strategically planned a date morning so we could go see the new Harry Potter movie together (we’re huge fans). In all the places where we bring our kid they need to learn how to be considerate and well-behaved to those around them, and other folks should do the same. I take my own children to fancy restaurants once in a great while, but it’s with the understanding that they’ll have to be especially grown up and be on their very best behavior. However I also place a lot of blame on how permissive parenting has become. Ahh. I think it is actually part of the problem. I think they’re a great idea. I think businesses banning children says more about societies total lack of responsibility when it comes to their children. Just saying. I would say absolutely do not mention the tv’s outside or comment on the kids’ behavior. All this said; I feel that restaurants have to do what they need to do. Ridiculous! Boycott. All should be allowed in church. So our disregard for really getting to know our kids and loving spending time with them, including them in our games, our outings, our enjoyments, as much as we do theirs; expecting much of them (because they are capable of respecting us) as we respect them ……. And when it comes to restaurants, we usually won’t bring our kids to an adult-oriented restaurant or bar, UNLESS we are meeting with a certain group of friends; because we can’t always get babysitting, it becomes a choice of whether we are going to see these friends at all or stay home. I know that some statistics show that the population is ageing. Ok, so old people only should be allowed to drive after nine and before 4. The babies were startled or awakened by the loud noises, toddlers screamed at frightening scenes, and preschoolers constantly asked (loudly) for explanations of plots/subjects that were beyond their comprehension. 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